Exodus 20:17 - “Thou shalt not covet thy neighbour’s house, thou shalt not covet thy neighbour’s wife, nor his manservant, nor his maidservant, nor his ox, nor his ass, nor any thing that is thy neighbour’s.”
Today, we’ll conclude evaluating the list below - a list of things easy for me, as a woman, to covet.
- A ‘caring, loving, more understanding’ spouse
- A larger, nicer home
- A nicer vehicle
- A better looking figure
- Nicer clothes
- More money
- A job or career
Remember - These are ALL things that can be very tempting for me to consider (um…. covet). And how I see this is, while these might be things I want at times, they aren’t in themselves bad. It’s when I COVET (focus on the ‘I don’t haves’), and neglect the Lord in them.
Nicer clothes. Nicer clothes can lead to vanity - we become more obsessed with how we look on the outside rather than what we’re like on the inside. At least for me, I would be panicking out of my mind if my little ones smudged their food smothered hands on a new outfit!
I get really get excited about finding great deals on Craigslist, at yard sales, thrift stores, or consignment shops! Here I find almost new clothes marked down to nothing!
Sure, every few years I might get a little tired of something I’ve worn for the past 6 to 10 years (smiles), and will go out and hit the stores. Mind you, I NEVER pay full price for any of it. My eyes are set only for those clearance racks hidden in the back. I try to shop at the end of the season, in preparation for the next year when I do this.
More money. Okay, I could always be happy with a little more - sure. But to COVET, to envy, to have money consume my thoughts would again be ‘not trusting the Lord and His provisions’. I’m grateful for what God has given us, for the wisdom my father taught me regarding money.
I’m grateful that while we’re not debt free, that this IS a desire both DH and I have, and our home is all that we owe on. And once we reach that debt free point, I believe that it wouldn’t be God’s will that we horde the money we would then be saving for ourselves - but use it for His kingdom.
Meeting a financial need someone might have, buying some clothes for a family needing a little extra help, buying and preparing meals for someone that’s sick.
When we are in debt, we don’t have the freedom to meet the needs of others like this. We are burdened with having to pay the bills.
When most people ‘covet’ money, it’s not to have it for purposes such as the ones listed above - but to spend it on their own wants and desires . Is a new car REALLY necessary, or cable/ satellite, or fancy clothes? Are these wants or needs? To do further God’s kindgom, or do they further ourselves?
Broken Arrow video
A job or career. As a stay at home mom, I can struggle with this at times. I feel as if what I’m doing isn’t important, isn’t enough. But like the last paragraph asked - am I furthering God’s kingdom, or furthering myself?
GOD has called parents to train their children, not babysitters or other family members. He gives an option, just as He gives us the option to sin, but that doesn’t mean both options are right. A woman that’s married or a mother can BEST serve the Lord by following the guidance HE’S given in His Word - by being a keeper at home.
It’s not always fun and glamorous - you don’t have a fancy title, and definitely don’t have the fancy paycheck! (I miss that at times, though mine wasn’t all that fancy - ha!)
But what you DO reap is a love and bond with your family that you miss out on otherwise. You reap the rewards of children raised up in a Godly home, children that will honor and follow the Lord in their own lives. (Not that other children won’t - but I’ve been on both sides, and there really is a difference)
Like I said before, women coveting a job or career are unhappy with God’s design for them. They aren’t content with what God created them to be. OUCH for me here!! Who am I to say that God’s plan for me isn’t good enough, it doesn’t fulfil me, it doesn’t make me happy. But I am guilty of this at times.
Okay, this has been a lot of ground covered, and I pray that as I have ventured through the 10 Commandments for my own self over the past months, that God has spoken to your hearts as well. May we be mindful of these throughout the whole year, devoting our lives to honor/ serve/ and glorify Him!